A common issue is that spouses don’t listen to each other. It is often a case of thinking you know one another so well that everything becomes familiar – therefore you know when to listen and when not to. This is a dangerous road to go down – it is often when this stage is reached that things start to go wrong and your views are not heard correctly as a result.
Another part of this problem is peoples reluctance to get into conversations that have the potential to be difficult or painful, but don’t let this stop you. If she won’t listen to you then you need to communicate to her more effectively that you need to have this talk, otherwise things are only going to get worse.
Start with a short and direct message that isn’t too confrontational, or make a specific request. Make sure you both have time to sit down and talk and be prepared to listen to each others issues and make changes.
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